Has this happened to you?

were you raised by a strict parent????i'll be turning 18 december 2009 and i can't wait until i get out my moms house!!! its like i live in a dictatorship! im a teenager im supposed to be able to go out with friends,parties,etc but im always locked up in the house!!! i love visiting my dads house but she wont let me do that just because of him and his girlfriend sometimes arguing and when i do go over there he wants me to spend ours but i cant,i have to call her and ask her to go over!!!! i hate that because im always lying to him just because of her and if i tell him what really goes on she'll get me for telling!!!!!! she also says bad things about him like he's fool his girlfriends a fool and she tried to get an attitude when i looked at her like she was crazy im young but i think she shouldnt talk bad about him to me i mean think about how that makes me look at him! its more she says....but has anyone been in this situation i think when im grown i'll be out of control because i cant do anything now!!!! i basically live a boring life and she tries to complain about me always being shut up in my room....but i can't go anywhere so there's nothing else i can do!