Why do born-again christians act like hypocrites?

WOW! you are making a lot of umptions. first off, not everyone who says they are a Christian is one. That is why the bible says you will know them by their fruits. those people you mentioned are not true Christians, if they were, there would have been some behavior changes there. Because BAC's as you call them are new in CHRIST. Old things have ped away and new things have come. As for those pastors, they are out of the will of GOD as well, and they will be dealt with by GOD. As far as her statement about God loving her no matter what she does, that is only partially right. He does love her, however because He is Holy, He must and WILL deal with those who practice sin. She should be really careful.